TikTok Safeguarding Tips for Parents: Using Family Pairing and Privacy Controls
TikTok is one of the world's most popular social media platforms, providing entertainment and creative expression for millions of teens. However, like any online platform, it presents risks regarding screen time, content exposure, and unwanted contact. The most effective safeguard is an open conversation, backed by the platform's powerful Family Pairing feature.
🔗 Essential Tool: How to Use Family Pairing
Family Pairing allows a parent to link their own TikTok account to their teen’s account to remotely manage certain safety settings. This gives parents crucial oversight without having to manage the device directly. To set it up, you will need the TikTok app installed on both your phone and your teen's phone.
Key Controls You Can Manage:
- Daily Screen Time: Set limits for how long your teen can spend on the app each day. You can set the limit directly from your phone.
- Restricted Mode: Enable this to automatically filter out content that may contain mature or complex themes, helping to keep their feed positive. You can remotely turn this on or off.
- Direct Messages: Decide who can message your teen, or turn Direct Messages off completely. (TikTok automatically disables DMs for accounts under 16, but you can customise this for older teens.)
- Search & Discoverability: You can choose to restrict whether your teen can search for videos, hashtags, and other accounts. You can also ensure their profile remains Private, meaning they must approve followers.
- Mute Notifications: Set schedules to automatically mute push notifications, helping to ensure your teen gets uninterrupted sleep.
- Time Away: Schedule recurring times, such as dinner hours or school time, when access to the app will be limited.
🗣️ Beyond the App: General Safety Tips
Parental control features are only one part of online safety. Combining these digital tools with consistent communication is the gold standard for safeguarding:
- Establish a Family Digital Agreement: Decide together what constitutes healthy device usage. This should cover screen-free times (especially mealtimes and bedtime), and what is appropriate to share online.
- Model Good Behaviour: Be mindful of your own screen time and device usage. Children learn healthy boundaries by seeing them reinforced by adults.
- Keep Communication Open: Reassure your teen that they can always come to you if they encounter something that makes them feel uncomfortable, or if a stranger attempts contact. Ensure they know they won't be punished by having their device taken away for telling you about a problem.
- Teach Reporting and Blocking: Ensure your child knows how to report inappropriate content or block users who are bothering them. Remind them that reporting is always anonymous.
📱 Device Safety Starts with the Device
Managing a safe online environment also means managing the device itself. A high-quality, reliable phone, whether new or professionally refurbished, is the essential tool. When your child outgrows their current device, ensure it's reused or properly recycled, maintaining the cycle of safety and sustainability.
Equip your family with a quality device built for safe online use when you buy a refurbished smartphone today. Or, trade in your old phone to fund a better model and ensure it's safely reused
